I believe that it is a cultural thing.....myself and Mrs. doc both grew up in a rural area, she on a farm, and me in the closest town (pop.2500). Over the past four decades, we have lived in NYC, LA, Detroit, and a number of other cities both here and overseas.
We have observed that city dwellers become conditioned to having to depend on any number of government-provided services to exist, ranging form police protection down to trash collection. When you exist in a small area, populated by a vast number of folks, I think you develop a "lemming" mentality, and begin to lose your innate sense of individualism, and self-sufficiency. We observed that particularly in eastern US cities, people develop the habit of complaining about nearly everything.....it becomes a way of life to be dissatisfied about something, as the urban lifestyle fosters a sense of loss of personal control.....whether you are self-sufficient or not, the urban system promotes the "communal" concept that all citizens are dependent on the government to one degree or another.
This is why, when we were able, we returned to our rural roots, as we never really did "fit in" in the urban landscape. It was fun to participate in all of the entertainment, activity, and dining opportunities that urban life offered in the cities that we lived either in or near, but, due, I suppose, to our roots, we never felt comfortable with it, and ultimately returned home.
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