Good advise from Ms Instapundit, Helen Reynolds:
"If you have been listening to the reaction to the Kavanaugh sexual abuse allegations, you have heard naysayers remark that Judge Kavanaugh was too angry, too temperamental and spent too much time defending himself. Phooey, he did exactly the right thing and with his nomination to the Supreme Court, his righteous indignation worked. Sure, there are those who hope his life is ruined, but it isn't. Why? He fought back.
Let that be a lesson to the normal, decent men out there who will not stand up for themselves whenever a woman is involved. I have heard the excuses for years: "I can't stand up to my wife, she might withhold sex. I can't make her mad, she might not love me. I can't fight back against sexual harassment charges that are false because the society is against me." It goes on and on.
Yes, all of this is true. But it doesn't mean that you cannot make the effort to push back against the misandry that is so rampant in our culture. We are now at the crossroads where due process for men is dubious, where one false allegation will end a man's career and where a woman's word is gospel. It's not. Judge Kavanaugh proved that this week. Due process is not dead and just because a man is charged by a woman does not automatically make him guilty. But until the man-hating stops, it is up to you to protect yourself.
How do you do that? It depends. A different strategy is needed to stand up in the case of a relationship than it would be in a job or legal situation. I hear from many men that their wife says negative things about men in general or to them directly in a sexist or nasty way. That is abusive. Tell her that, initially in a nice way."
Balance of article at the link:
https://pjmedia.com/drhelen/how-the-kavanaugh-case-teaches-men-to-fight-back/