I would say meaning arises, and refers to something real, when one the combination arises of sentience, a desire to act, and a compelling reason (or reasons) for that action.
See, this is exactly what I'm talking about.
You're not saying anything beyond
being + will + reason = meaningThat is a declarative statement, not an explanatory statement. It doesn't even rise to the level of descriptive because nothing explains HOW being + will = meaning.
It does nothing to explain WHAT that meaning is/should be.
Nor do you expolain the quality of meaning. Every person labelled as a tyrant assumes he has reasons for his actions. Even Hitler and emperor Tojo can be said to have loved their respective nations and their people and from that they reasoned as best they could the best course to make their nations and people prosper and they exercised their wills in accordance with their reasonings. So were their lives and loves meaningful?
Nor does it explain to WHOM the meaning belongs. There was a case in ancient Greece where an emancipated salve was murdered but as the salve was emanicipated there was no loss to her former master. Her parents were already dead and she had no husband or children. Since no one had suffered a loss except the girl herself and she was--obviously--no longer existent it was ruled that no crime had been committed.
If all meaning is doomed to end did it ever really mean anything at all? It seems to me that once the beholder of meaning ceases to be then any meaning held by that person ends with them.
WHEN does meaning begin and WHEN does it end? How about slaves and prisoners who are deprived of their ability to affect their wills? Does meaning exist if will is absent such as in the case of a mental defective be it congenital or accidental?
A "compelling reason" excludes about 95% of the world's population that simply exists by happenstance. This si such a lame descriptor one must wonder if you consider the elites of science, politics, art, law and philosophy as being the only ones worthy having their existence declared "meaningful".
Does the 12 year old Thai boy who is abducted, beaten, strung-out on opiates to secure his complaince then dressed as a girl to be peddled off to fat, rich STD-spreading whites have a meaningful existence? He has, after all, been denied both his will and any compelling reason for his being.