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I am sorry bisexuals
« on: June 09, 2008, 02:06:18 AM »
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ccharles000  (1000+ posts)       Sat May-31-08 01:47 PM
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I am sorry bisexuals. 

 I had a friend come out as bi a couple of days ago and I thought that it was a phase because she had only dated guys and seemed really happy with them(I know my thinking was stupid). I am sad to say that I am one of many who does not really believe in bisexuality until now. I was thinking really hard and have realized I was a hypocrite and that I should support everyone in my community. So I am sorry to all the bi people here.

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movonne  (1000+ posts)       Sat May-31-08 02:22 PM
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8. I think about 80% of the population is bi...just don't know it...
 


Hmmmmm....how could you not know it???

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rox63  (1000+ posts)      Sat May-31-08 02:26 PM
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9. Bisexuality is even more confusing to young people than being gay
 Young people (teens) are just finding themselves sexually, and most really just want to fit in with their peers. Knowing that you absolutely are attracted to one gender and not the other has some comfort to it. Feeling attraction to people of both genders in my teens caused me to freak out somewhat, deny the attraction to people of my gender, and later on, get myself into a bad marriage, thinking that I'd never have to think about the issue again. I'm much older and wiser now, divorced 15 years ago, and I'm comfortable with my sexuality. But it was a painful journey getting here. I spent my youth feeling like some sort of freak, afraid I would be rejected by both the gay and straight communities. There are some folks in the gay community who resent bi folks, because they think bi's can "pass" as straight. Maybe they can "pass", but not without lying to themselves.

 



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Karl_Bonner_1982 (11 posts)      Mon Jun-09-08 02:53 AM
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23. I think I'm at least a little bit bi
 I'm a man who's overwhelmingly attracted to men. My sexual experience is exclusively gay. But I am very curious as to what straight sex is like. The only problem is I am VERY bashful, and how do you approach a woman and say "I'm mostly gay and have never slept with a woman, but I'd like to try it. However I don't want to commit myself to a hetero relationship. Will you sleep with me?" (LOL....)


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terrya  (1000+ posts)       Sat May-31-08 02:05 PM
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6. I'm ashamed to say that I felt the same way.
 In the past, I scoffed at the idea of bisexuality. I thought it was a sort of copout. I used to think in shades of black and white, so to speak. Either you were gay or you were straight. Period.

I know now that I was completely wrong and I want to apologize to my bisexual friends here.
 


So is being bi like "sitting on the fence" or "I refuse to choose"?  :rotf:


 

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Re: I am sorry bisexuals
« Reply #1 on: June 09, 2008, 05:14:23 AM »
When I was back in the states last year, my wife and I rented a movie that explored the "acceptence" of female homosexuality in our society.  It was rather interesting to say the least.
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Re: I am sorry bisexuals
« Reply #2 on: June 09, 2008, 06:55:22 AM »
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Karl_Bonner_1982 (11 posts)      Mon Jun-09-08 02:53 AM
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23. I think I'm at least a little bit bi
 I'm a man who's overwhelmingly attracted to men. My sexual experience is exclusively gay. But I am very curious as to what straight sex is like. The only problem is I am VERY bashful, and how do you approach a woman and say "I'm mostly gay and have never slept with a woman, but I'd like to try it. However I don't want to commit myself to a hetero relationship. Will you sleep with me?" (LOL....)



I don't know about other women but I feel extremely turned on by this approach.  I mean who doesn't want to throw a mercy ^%&* to someone who previously only stuck it in glory holes and butts?  Who doesn't want a chance of getting some really swell STD just so someone can find out what normal sex feels like?  Any girl who refuses must be a bigot, repuke, fundie, homophobe!!!!
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Re: I am sorry bisexuals
« Reply #3 on: June 09, 2008, 10:25:04 AM »
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Karl_Bonner_1982 (11 posts)      Mon Jun-09-08 02:53 AM
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23. I think I'm at least a little bit bi
 I'm a man who's overwhelmingly attracted to men. My sexual experience is exclusively gay. But I am very curious as to what straight sex is like. The only problem is I am VERY bashful, and how do you approach a woman and say "I'm mostly gay and have never slept with a woman, but I'd like to try it. However I don't want to commit myself to a hetero relationship. Will you sleep with me?" (LOL....)



I don't know about other women but I feel extremely turned on by this approach.  I mean who doesn't want to throw a mercy ^%&* to someone who previously only stuck it in glory holes and butts?  Who doesn't want a chance of getting some really swell STD just so someone can find out what normal sex feels like?  Any girl who refuses must be a bigot, repuke, fundie, homophobe!!!!

Nawh....I think that would just make you a "bye"-sexual.
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Re: I am sorry bisexuals
« Reply #4 on: June 09, 2008, 10:33:03 AM »
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Karl_Bonner_1982 (11 posts)      Mon Jun-09-08 02:53 AM
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23. I think I'm at least a little bit bi
 I'm a man who's overwhelmingly attracted to men. My sexual experience is exclusively gay. But I am very curious as to what straight sex is like. The only problem is I am VERY bashful, and how do you approach a woman and say "I'm mostly gay and have never slept with a woman, but I'd like to try it. However I don't want to commit myself to a hetero relationship. Will you sleep with me?" (LOL....)



I don't know about other women but I feel extremely turned on by this approach.  I mean who doesn't want to throw a mercy ^%&* to someone who previously only stuck it in glory holes and butts?  Who doesn't want a chance of getting some really swell STD just so someone can find out what normal sex feels like?  Any girl who refuses must be a bigot, repuke, fundie, homophobe!!!!

Oh shit, I am laughing so hard it hurts.

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Re: I am sorry bisexuals
« Reply #5 on: June 09, 2008, 12:46:17 PM »
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movonne  (1000+ posts)       Sat May-31-08 02:22 PM
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8. I think about 80% of the population is bi...just don't know it...


80% of DU maybe, but not 80% of the outside world.
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Re: I am sorry bisexuals
« Reply #6 on: June 09, 2008, 02:15:01 PM »
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Karl_Bonner_1982 (11 posts)      Mon Jun-09-08 02:53 AM
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23. I think I'm at least a little bit bi
 I'm a man who's overwhelmingly attracted to men. My sexual experience is exclusively gay. But I am very curious as to what straight sex is like. The only problem is I am VERY bashful, and how do you approach a woman and say "I'm mostly gay and have never slept with a woman, but I'd like to try it. However I don't want to commit myself to a hetero relationship. Will you sleep with me?" (LOL....)



I don't know about other women but I feel extremely turned on by this approach.  I mean who doesn't want to throw a mercy ^%&* to someone who previously only stuck it in glory holes and butts?  Who doesn't want a chance of getting some really swell STD just so someone can find out what normal sex feels like?  Any girl who refuses must be a bigot, repuke, fundie, homophobe!!!!

I am not bi but damn, I sure could use some mercy!  :o
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Re: I am sorry bisexuals
« Reply #7 on: June 09, 2008, 04:48:27 PM »
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ftbc  (1000+ posts)      Tue Jun-03-08 10:47 AM
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19. That is kind of you. What I don't understand is how commonly people deny what a person says...
 about his or her identity. When someone says "I'm bi"... it sure takes gall to say "No you're not."
Same with "I may have female DNA but I am a man."Who knows better than the person who is living it?


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Re: I am sorry bisexuals
« Reply #8 on: June 09, 2008, 05:18:33 PM »
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ftbc  (1000+ posts)      Tue Jun-03-08 10:47 AM
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19. That is kind of you. What I don't understand is how commonly people deny what a person says...
 about his or her identity. When someone says "I'm bi"... it sure takes gall to say "No you're not."
Same with "I may have female DNA but I am a man."Who knows better than the person who is living it?


WTF????

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Re: I am sorry bisexuals
« Reply #9 on: June 09, 2008, 05:51:01 PM »
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ftbc  (1000+ posts)      Tue Jun-03-08 10:47 AM
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19. ... "I may have female DNA but I am a man."  Who knows better than the person who is living it?


Professional Psychiatrists.

I can't believe how people don't find such statements incredibily offensive.  They are basically saying that Women (or Men, depending on the post) are defined by stereotypes.  I though we spent the past 80 years figuring out that gender does not define behavior.

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ftbc  (1000+ posts)      Tue Jun-03-08 10:47 AM
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19. ... "I may have female DNA but I am a man."  Who knows better than the person who is living it?


Professional Psychiatrists.

I can't believe how people don't find such statements incredibily offensive.  They are basically saying that Women (or Men, depending on the post) are defined by stereotypes.  I though we spent the past 80 years figuring out that gender does not define behavior.

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Re: I am sorry bisexuals
« Reply #11 on: June 10, 2008, 12:44:36 AM »
I never realized how oppressed I am to be a straight female.

But seriously, I don't believe in the prevalence of claimed bisexuality. I think we are just talking young, horny, and omnisexual. And to turn Mama's satirical comment around, the last thing I ever wanted as a female sex object was to be a gay man's experiment.

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« Reply #12 on: June 10, 2008, 04:54:46 AM »
Well golly, I feel so unenlightened and backwards. I actually appreciate the fact that my husband has a penis. It's equipment that I don't personally have but damned if it doesn't feel like that missing puzzle piece. Guess I'm pretty much out of the running for the "I'll **** Anything That Moves Enlightened Progressive of the Year Award".

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« Reply #13 on: June 10, 2008, 10:04:12 AM »
Sorta off topic, but did you guys see that terrible Adam Sandler movie "I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry"?

Jessica Biel is SMOKIN'.

People other than Jessica Biel were in that movie?
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« Reply #14 on: June 10, 2008, 10:08:31 AM »
Sorta off topic, but did you guys see that terrible Adam Sandler movie "I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry"?

Jessica Biel is SMOKIN'.

People other than Jessica Biel were in that movie?

Why not...?

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« Reply #15 on: June 10, 2008, 01:15:35 PM »
Well golly, I feel so unenlightened and backwards. I actually appreciate the fact that my husband has a penis. It's equipment that I don't personally have but damned if it doesn't feel like that missing puzzle piece. Guess I'm pretty much out of the running for the "I'll **** Anything That Moves Enlightened Progressive of the Year Award".

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Re: I am sorry bisexuals
« Reply #16 on: June 10, 2008, 01:37:04 PM »
Well golly, I feel so unenlightened and backwards. I actually appreciate the fact that my husband has a penis. It's equipment that I don't personally have but damned if it doesn't feel like that missing puzzle piece. Guess I'm pretty much out of the running for the "I'll **** Anything That Moves Enlightened Progressive of the Year Award".

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I think THIS GUY might have been in the running for the "I'll **** Anything That Moves Enlightened Progressive of the Year Award" before he cashed in at the Darwin Awards ceremonies.
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« Reply #17 on: June 10, 2008, 02:50:18 PM »
Well golly, I feel so unenlightened and backwards. I actually appreciate the fact that my husband has a penis. It's equipment that I don't personally have but damned if it doesn't feel like that missing puzzle piece. Guess I'm pretty much out of the running for the "I'll **** Anything That Moves Enlightened Progressive of the Year Award".

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I think THIS GUY might have been in the running for the "I'll **** Anything That Moves Enlightened Progressive of the Year Award" before he cashed in at the Darwin Awards ceremonies.

I saw that.  WTF . . . ?
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« Reply #18 on: June 10, 2008, 06:33:46 PM »
Cut these DUmmies some slack. You must keep in mind that the average DUmmie's uglier'n a sack o' assholes. By claiming to be "bi" they're just doubling their chances on a Saturday night.
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« Reply #19 on: June 11, 2008, 05:16:40 AM »
Cut these DUmmies some slack. You must keep in mind that the average DUmmie's uglier'n a sack o' assholes. By claiming to be "bi" they're just doubling their chances on a Saturday night.

Isn't zero multiplied by two still zero?
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« Reply #20 on: June 11, 2008, 09:55:15 AM »
Cut these DUmmies some slack. You must keep in mind that the average DUmmie's uglier'n a sack o' assholes. By claiming to be "bi" they're just doubling their chances on a Saturday night.

Isn't zero multiplied by two still zero?
Not necessarily. Never underestimate what a complete lack of discretion and copious amounts of narcotics will do for someone's love life.
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« Reply #21 on: June 11, 2008, 11:08:40 AM »
Cut these DUmmies some slack. You must keep in mind that the average DUmmie's uglier'n a sack o' assholes. By claiming to be "bi" they're just doubling their chances on a Saturday night.

Isn't zero multiplied by two still zero?

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« Reply #22 on: June 11, 2008, 11:19:33 AM »
How is rejecting the concept of bi-sexuality any worse than rejecting the concept of homosexuality? I guess that's more of a question for them. And yes, I could go and ask it if the computer I was one didn't have a firewall rejecting DU. lol.
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« Reply #23 on: June 11, 2008, 11:22:41 AM »
Cut these DUmmies some slack. You must keep in mind that the average DUmmie's uglier'n a sack o' assholes. By claiming to be "bi" they're just doubling their chances on a Saturday night.


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« Reply #24 on: June 11, 2008, 11:23:40 AM »
I have no problem when a girlfriend and another one of her girlfriends pretend to be bi for a couple hours.

But, I get to pick the other girl.

It's all good.