Alpha Female Will Not Be An Enabler

[Traveshamockery]

Maybe Pool Hall Ace's husband goes to bed so early so as not to deal with her.  Apparently her MIL owns the mortgage on their house and yet, somehow, PHA and her husband are the victims.  We have the normal run-of-the-mill complaining until Alpha Female comes in to shake things up.

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Pool Hall Ace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Sat Dec-25-10 06:48 PM
Original message
Note to self: stop talking to mother-in-law
   
I made the mistake of answering my husband's cell phone this evening. It was his mother calling. She wanted to speak with him. I was honest and told her that he was asleep (at 7:00 p.m. Eastern). She asked me if this was typical. I was honest and told her that it was. She asked if it was because of his drinking. I was honest and told her it was.

I didn't need to hear my mother-in-law remind me that my husband needs to want to get help for his alcoholism (duh) and that she needs us to either make our payments on the house or sell it.

I just finished a seasonal job, and I'm trying to find a permanent job. I just wanted some peace today, which I usually don't get until after my husband has fallen asleep.

Oh, but before ending the conversation, she did wish me a "Merry Christmas."

The requisite "blame the Republicans" phraseology enters the conversation:

Pool Hall Ace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Sat Dec-25-10 07:22 PM
Response to Reply #2
4. Thank you for the laugh! It means a great deal to me.
   
I mean, as far as I know, even the debt collectors take Christmas day off. Why can't she?

If I could click my heels Dorothy Gale-style and go back in time to when I had a job, a house, and was single, I certainly would.

It wouldn't be surprised if she voted Republican this past November. She probably thinks that John Boehner will help me get a job and get back on my feet.

Ahh, they are stiffing his parents and not making mortgage payments.  Husband refuses to work for less than $55 per hour.  But she can afford to donate to Skinner.   

Pool Hall Ace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Sat Dec-25-10 09:57 PM
Response to Reply #5
6. My husband was not an active drinker when I married him.
   
This is the story from my husband (who is truth-impaired): When he first purchased his home, he obtained a loan from a bank. His father, who was an accountant, thought the interest was too high, so the parents bought the mortgage. When we first got married, we made the mortgage payments to his parents. They are not making payments on the house; they really own the house (though the deed is in our names).

The money problems started in January 2009, when I had emergency brain surgery. My husband tried to file for divorce while I was in the hospital. He also tried (unsuccessfully) to remove me from his insurance policy.

Later that year, after receiving more than one threat, I left him. He lied to me and told me that Blue Cross had canceled my coverage because my brain tumor was considered a pre-existing condition. I later found out that he had lied; he had notified Blue Cross that we were divorcing and that I was no longer his dependent. However, because of the length of time that had gone by, coverage could not be reinstated.

When I ran out of options, I came back to my husband. Due to additional medical problems, I am in the process of filing for bankruptcy. My husband is refusing to work, believing his mother and other wealthy relatives will support him. Though it may sound selfish, I need to look out for me. I have since opened my own bank account so I can pay the bills. He will have to find his liquor money from elsewhere. I have tried to help him look for a job, but he refuses to work for less than $55/hour (even though I am making much less than before).

I understand that we need to be making payments on the house, but does she have to call on ****ing Christmas night? I wonder if it would be better if she would just go ahead and foreclose on us.

Uh oh - DUmmie alphafemale enters the discussion and brings up Family Feud?!?!.  She is having NONE of this victim talk from PHA!

alphafemale Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Sun Dec-26-10 11:30 AM
Response to Original message
22. She is paying for her grwn son and DIL's house and expresses concern that he is passed out drunk....
   
Edited on Sun Dec-26-10 11:49 AM by alphafemale
She is paying for her grown son and DIL's house and expresses concern that he is passed out drunk....before Family Feud....

And she's the one with problems?????

Oh.

I am NOT enabling this!!!

ARE U FKING KIDDING ME!??!!

Hippywife and Stupid Beth then enter the conversation and it's the same ole, same ole.  Blah, blah, blah. 

[Carl]

As in most DUmmy sob stories there are more dysfunctional things left out then we can ever imagine,let alone experience.

[Max]

Hubbby tries to divorce her then takes her back.  What an ingrate  (and liar I am sure)

[JohnnyReb]

Hubbby tries to divorce her then takes her back.  What an ingrate  (and liar I am sure)

If divorced, she gets free government healthcare, foodstamps, shelter, etc., etc......and he can shack up with here and take a free ride.

Alpha Female Will Not Be An Enabler: She refuses to fetch the booze from the store.

[Max]

If divorced, she gets free government healthcare, foodstamps, shelter, etc., etc......and he can shack up with here and take a free ride.

Nah, she's crafty.  She's holding our for the wealthy family to bite the dust for hubsters inheritance.  I wouild drink too if I lived her

[Karin]

Beth is over there being an amateur psychologist/guidance counselor.  This is her new habit, and it's extremely annoying.  She read some dopey book like "Men are from Mars, etc."  and now fancies herself a wise member of the "helping professions." 

[USA4ME]

Pool Hall Ace

My husband was not an active drinker when I married him.

No doubt the same can be said for many spouses of moonbats.

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[Ralph Wiggum]

No doubt the same can be said for many spouses of moonbats.

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Thanks for the laugh USA4ME!!!

[JohnnyReb]

No doubt the same can be said for many spouses of moonbats.

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Behind every drunk is a moonbat woman.

[GOBUCKS]

Mirabile dictu!! A thread started by the alcoholic plagiarist Wee Willie's long-suffering wife! Sounds like DUmmy Raven is finally getting impatient with his drunken laziness!

[IassaFTots]

Mirabile dictu!! A thread started by the alcoholic plagiarist Wee Willie's long-suffering wife! Sounds like DUmmy Raven is finally getting impatient with his drunken laziness!

Hi5!!!

 

[The Hollywood NeoCon]

I'm sure most everyone here has, in their past, a relationship they probably maintained a tad longer than they should have - Lord knows I do.

In point of fact, in my youth, it could be said that I didn't have ex-girlfriends - I had victims.

C'est la vie. I have grown, and have learned. I've screwed women over, and have been screwed over quite effectively in return.

Having said that, and read the OP, I can honestly say that among the thousands of profound differences between the primitives and us conservatives is this: that while we have had shitty relationships, we sure as shit didn't spend our lives wallowing in them and allowing ourselves to be played, ****ed over and hurt again and again.

And we sure as HELL didn't take to the internet in some vain, self-involved quest to validate the ****ed-up choices we've made.

These pathetic idiots are so incapable of getting out of their own way, they almost deserve the shit they're lving in.

[Traveshamockery]

I'm sure most everyone here has, in their past, a relationship they probably maintained a tad longer than they should have - Lord knows I do.

In point of fact, in my youth, it could be said that I didn't have ex-girlfriends - I had victims.

C'est la vie. I have grown, and have learned. I've screwed women over, and have been screwed over quite effectively in return.

Having said that, and read the OP, I can honestly say that among the thousands of profound differences between the primitives and us conservatives is this: that while we have had shitty relationships, we sure as shit didn't spend our lives wallowing in them and allowing ourselves to be played, ****ed over and hurt again and again.

And we sure as HELL didn't take to the internet in some vain, self-involved quest to validate the ****ed-up choices we've made.

These pathetic idiots are so incapable of getting out of their own way, they almost deserve the shit they're lving in.

I don't like to make light of other peoples' problems but these DUmmies just seem to, like you said, wallow in their misery and bitch and moan about it but never do anything to change it. 

[The Hollywood NeoCon]

I don't like to make light of other peoples' problems but these DUmmies just seem to, like you said, wallow in their misery and bitch and moan about it but never do anything to change it.  

Exactly my point, kind sir!

Had Debbie Sturm not shown up at that party with that USC linebacker two years after finding out I tried to talk her sister into the sack, and instead continued to allow me to treat her like a Democrat-voting minority, she would no doubt have ended up slinging fish tacos at a Del Taco franchise in Arcadia, supporting yours truly in his delusional fantasy of one day becoming a world famous drummer with some shitty hair band.

For the record, Debbie not only married that linebacker, she was a Los Angeles City Councilman, a college professor, the mother of four great kids, and one of my best friends.

[BlueStateSaint]

Beth is over there being an amateur psychologist/guidance counselor.  This is her new habit, and it's extremely annoying.  She read some dopey book like "Men are from Mars, etc."  and now fancies herself a wise member of the "helping professions." 

Poor, stupid Beth is a member of the "helping professions" in the same way that Dr. Jack Kevorkian was/is.

[true_blood]

What a great family Christmas story, huh?! Typical on the DUmp.
Let's see. Mother in law calls and talks to the wife. Wife says husband is in bed at 7 PM because of heavy drinking. He refuses to work for under 55 bucks an hour. (NEWSFLASH,...not many jobs out there are paying 55 bucks an hour, unless you are an engineer. In other words, he doesn't want to work any more.) And, they make no payments on the house that live in. She finds out that he doesn't want her around any more, but yet, she's hanging on. A day in the life of a primitive.

[GOBUCKS]

She finds out that he doesn't want her around any more, but yet, she's hanging on. A day in the life of a primitive.

That's a common problem at the DUmp. A high percentage of DUmmies live somewhere that they're not really wanted. For example, most states.

[Traveshamockery]

Exactly my point, kind sir!

Why does everyone think I'm a man?  Maybe I need to change my picture to a really sexy woman.  That would work, right? 

 

[true_blood]

That's a common problem at the DUmp. A high percentage of DUmmies live somewhere that they're not really wanted. For example, most states.

H5!

[IassaFTots]

Why does everyone think I'm a man?  Maybe I need to change my picture to a really sexy woman.  That would work, right? 

 

I dunno if it would work, but the boys would be happy at any rate.   

[Evil_Conservative]

Why does everyone think I'm a man?  Maybe I need to change my picture to a really sexy woman.  That would work, right? 

 

Just put in your signature that you are a lady.  lol

[Ralph Wiggum]

Why does everyone think I'm a man?  Maybe I need to change my picture to a really sexy woman.  That would work, right? 

 

I thought Bijou was a dude when she first started posting several years ago.      

Other people too.  Sometimes it is difficult to determine gender on here.

[Evil_Conservative]

I thought Bijou was a dude when she first started posting several years ago.     

Other people too.  Sometimes it is difficult to determine gender on here.

Okay, I thought Bijou was a guy too.

Sorry!!!!!!!

[The Hollywood NeoCon]

I thought Bijou was a dude when she first started posting several years ago.      

Other people too.  Sometimes it is difficult to determine gender on here.

Bijou's a chick?!?!?!? Oy vey, I'm sorry!!!!

Sorry to you too, madam Traveshamockery!!! 

[Chris_]

Remember when jendf had the Ned Flanders avatar and everybody thought she was a man?