My friend recently had a difficult pregnancy. She was pregnant with twins, but not too far into the pregnancy, the Doctor's found that one of the twins had anencephaly, which means that the brain did not finish developing, and that it would be impossible for her to live very long outside of the womb. Several doctors suggested terminating the pregnancy, and aborting both babies. When I mentioned to people that I wasn't going to be at work because I was going to her funeral, other people had the response, wondering why the doctors didn't "do something" about it earlier. People were content once I explained that she was a twin, but I was actually amazed at how many people thought that abortion should be the first response when parents know that their child won't live long past birth.
We had the funeral for Grace Anastasia yesterday. She lived for 8 and a half hours, which is twice the average, and her sister is an absolutely beautiful baby. Her father gave a beautiful speech at the funeral, and he said that they knew that Grace would be with them for exactly as long as God wanted her to be, and then He would take her to be with him in heaven.