Dear DUmmie, he is going to a combat zone, there isn't a "safe" location, or "safe" duty, so don't delude yourself. Some places just see less action than others. Do him and yourself a favor and STFU about things you don't know jack s**t about. Send him a care package as often as possible, it doesn't have to be something big, you wouldn't believe what a simple card, short letter, and a picture of home can do for someone, and what ever you do don't discuss politics with him. I doubt she'll listen, she is a DUmpmonkey.