Great question!
I realize that what I have said about the relationship between God's control of everything and man's control of somethings seems like a contradiction, but the Bible teaches them both.
Thank you, sir.
Wherever this particular impression I have comes from, I've always seen it as God having given man unfettered control over this time and place, to teach man that man cannot be God.
One would think we learned this lesson a long time ago, but apparently not, what with totalitarianists, socialists, Democrats, liberals, primitives, global warmists, and climate changeists still trying to create a paradise on earth.
Ultimately such an attitude is going to kill us all; remember that things such as the Great Purges, the Holocaust, the Great Leap Forward, &c., &c., &c., were but weak fleeting attempts to create a paradise on earth--one reasonably assumes future attempts will be rather more vigorous.
This has never been of great concern to me--other than for the countless victims denied life and opportunity--because in the end, this time and place passes onto another time and place where God reigns Supreme, and man has no silly notions.
But what has always been of concern to me is this idea that when something bad happens, some seem to accept it as the "Will" of God, hence lending ammunition to those in humanity looking for excuses to Hate God.
It's perfectly fine, and emotionally and intellectually healthy, to accept what comes one's way--to accept it, adapt to it, and move on--but one must put the blame where it belongs; on man, on random chance, on sheer good or bad luck, and not on God, because God is keeping the Hands off of things in this time and place.
On a personal note, I started reading the Don Camillo books (the children's versions) at a very young age, and was obviously greatly influenced by them, and they perhaps had something to do with my attitude about my deafness, my being born absent of ears.
Once in a rare while, throughout my life, a kind-but-ignorant person has mentioned that such an affliction was the "Will" of God, so as to make me a better person. I have no doubt it makes me a better person than I would be if I were a hearing person, but even as a little lad, I had, and have, considerable doubts that such was the "Will" of God.
It was just random chance, good luck or bad luck, however one wishes to see it.
My mother was a registered nurse, and I always supposed--it's far to late to know the facts now--that perhaps in her fourth or fifth month of pregnancy, in her work she came into contact with a virus normally harmless or insignificant. The normal usual customary routine human negligence, and as God knows (but some in mankind don't seem to know), we all get careless once in a while, and nothing can be done about it.
We're not perfect, we're not God, after all.
Very often, the primitives on Skins's island try to be "theological," and ask, "If there's a God, why does God allow suffering?"
That's a pretty stupid question, even if asked by a non-primitive, and deserves no reply, nothing more than silent contempt.