My first encounter with a black person was at age 6 in the Appalachians of Kentucky. I remember it distinctly. I was standing in front of my grandfather's house on a dusty river road. A black boy of about 8 came up to me and said, "How'd you like for me to kill you?" First thing out of his mouth when he laid eyes on me. What was I to say; Yes, please kill me now before I use any more of my white privilege?
Even at 6 I knew I had to derail this somehow. I asked him if he wanted to see the bird's nest I'd found. He said he would. Since it was in the trunk of my father's car I told him I'd have to go to the house to get someone to open it. I didn't leave that house again until the visit was over and we were on our way home.
I hate to admit how long ago this was, probably much longer than anyone else here has been alive. Even then, a kid of 8, had been instilled with this mentality.