And when I hear the VFW and American Legion I just want to puke all over these fascists. They have done nothing for the vets in years.
And a gentleman I know (who is registered, albeit inactive here) who works for the American Legion national organization would be very upset to hear you say that, Bob. Matter of fact, the VFW and AmLegion have done a GREAT DEAL for our veterans, both active and separating. Things you might never consider, like VA counseling, job and education assistance, mental and medical heathcare referrals, etc., etc..
Which is why I'm a proud member of both organizations. And no, most people don't know I served, unless it comes up in conversation. One guy didn't even believe me until I showed him my life member VFW card, so there's that.
And as far as you hating your time in, well, that shit goes both ways. You are what the NCO corps refers to as "10 percenters."