Feminist theory is flawed.
For example, everybody says Asian wives (I mean the real imports, not the ones made in the USA) are nice and docile and submissive. Well, they might not shame their husband in public, sure, but it's a differnet story when they're home alone. That is her domain, he is only there when he isn't working, which she will try to make him comfortable. If you want to see how submissive she is, just let her husband try to tell her how to run her house. He'll be lucky if he doesn't get stabbed. I know all of this because one of my best friends is married to a Japanese woman and another is married to a Chinese woman. They, the wives will tell you who run things in their house.