What sexual acts do you consider to be violent?

[dutch508]

No- I am n0ot shitting you. That is the OP title.

Blue_Adept (60 posts) http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024094402

What sexual acts do you consider to be violent?There's obviously been a swath of various rape related threads lately, many for good reason and for good discussion, but we've also had a lot of confusion seeping into them from people talking at cross purposes.

The biggest takeaway for me in a lot of them is seeing a lot of people talking about violent sex/porn but not truly defining what they think is violent. Everyone leads different lives, has different experiences and interacts with everyone else differently, especially when it comes to sex. We've also seen studies come up from certain areas where they describe oral sex as either aggressive (to be polite) or violent itself. And other studies claiming 88% of porn online is violent.

But nobody is saying what is violent in porn? I'd love to know, both being a consumer, reviewer and interacting with many in the industry here and abroad. What do folks here consider violent in porn or just plain violent in sex acts themselves?

This is just bad moling...

Bad bad bad.... The OP needs to be punished...   

Skidmore (30,274 posts)
15. Why this sudden zeal on DU to get others to accept violence as acceptable sexual expression?

I don't get it. Violence is unacceptable in any action. People consenting to giving and receiving violence have issues. Period. That is my opinion, and I speak as someone who was raped repeatedly over years as a child. Promoting depiction of violence in media is particpating vicariously in acts of violence.

Good point. DU seams to be the testing ground for alot of left wing agenda 'floaters'. If I was a suspicious man I'd say the pedos and other sex fruits are seeing if they can legalize their behavior...


Nah....

seabeyond (89,357 posts)
36. we also oppose the abuse of the lack of voice. with this one issue, we throw them under the bus

for our own wants. no more or less than a republican with greed.

you have two needs fighting each other. the need to protect all those millions without consent, or voice. and the need to do whatever in our sexuality. they oppose one another.

very interesting point.

seabeyond (89,357 posts)
44. you and others want to shut this conversation down with religion/morally wrong. that is not where

the women from the left is coming from. you NEVER hear us discussing the morality of it.

again. that is not listening to the woman. that is always deciding the direction of the argument. on the porn threads, all we heard was "religious" argument. when we talk about feeding our poor do we shame those that want to do something with the poor by saying, you are being all jesus.... you rw'er?

no. we see it as our social obligation to care for the less advantage in our society. those being hurt.

but.... cause it is mens want, we MUST shift it to morals. we MUST call the women prudes. it HAS to be because the woman hates sex, ugly, frigid.

it cannot be because this is a part of society that needs our voice.

getting back to the DU theme of "If it feels good, do it."

gulliver (9,072 posts)
24. George W. Bush is the classic Republican

He is their North Star. Ruin the country's economy? Check. Start unnecessary wars? Check. Sit for seven and a half minutes while the country is under attack? Check.

Republicanism distilled.

wait... what?

[Chris_]

Skidmore (30,274 posts)
15. Why this sudden zeal on DU to get others to accept violence as acceptable sexual expression?

I don't get it. Violence is unacceptable in any action. People consenting to giving and receiving violence have issues. Period. That is my opinion, and I speak as someone who was raped repeatedly over years as a child. Promoting depiction of violence in media is particpating vicariously in acts of violence.

Replace 'violence' with 'homosexuality' and Skidmore won't be posting at "the DU" much longer.

[Ralph Wiggum]

seabeyond (89,357 posts)
36. we also oppose the abuse of the lack of voice. with this one issue, we throw them under the bus

for our own wants. no more or less than a republican with greed.

you have two needs fighting each other. the need to protect all those millions without consent, or voice. and the need to do whatever in our sexuality. they oppose one another.

[FiddyBeowulf]

36. we also oppose the abuse of the lack of voice. with this one issue, we throw them under the bus

for our own wants. no more or less than a republican with greed.

you have two needs fighting each other. the need to protect all those millions without consent, or voice. and the need to do whatever in our sexuality. they oppose one another.

Same sex pederasty, the DUmmy DUlemma. As a DUmmie, do they protect child's right not to be abused or the adult's right to indulge in its sexual nature no matter how messed up it is?

[landofconfusion80]

Same sex pederasty, the DUmmy DUlemma. As a DUmmie, do they protect child's right not to be abused or the adult's right to indulge in its sexual nature no matter how messed up it is?

they're against kids on airplanes and certain coffee shops, so this would seem to be the next logical step. As long as the primitive feels good, that's all that matters.

[wasp69]

gulliver (9,072 posts)
24. George W. Bush is the classic Republican

He is their North Star. Ruin the country's economy? Check. Start unnecessary wars? Check. Sit for seven and a half minutes while the country is under attack? Check.

Republicanism distilled.

Nice strawman, DUmbass.  Don't set it on fire when you light the bong.   

[DumbAss Tanker]

A lot of human sexuality isn't just cuddles and magic impregnation while watching romantic movies together, the issue of power is inextricably tied up with sexuality for both men and women, whether it's extremely overt complete with props and role-playing or so subtle it isn't even clear.  There isn't a clear line that applies everywhere for everybody, each person has his or her own limits.  I suspect a large percentage of the DUmp feminazis (The hetero ones) won't admit it but actually fantasize about being dominant over submissive men.

[Bad Dog]

Personally I think they're just being hormonal.

[wasp69]

I suspect a large percentage of the DUmp feminazis (The hetero ones) won't admit it but actually fantasize about being dominant over submissive men.

I suspect, good sir, you are 100% correct.

I think, though, that what the DUmmies can't articulate is the fact that they have stumbled upon the realization that the most intimate state two people can be in are either hand to hand struggle or sexual contact.  The rest of the civilized world can make a distinction between the two and act accordingly, while a bunch of the DUmp cretins will probably wet their pants after passing what I have written through their DUmbass filter.

[JohnnyReb]

What sexual acts do you consider to be violent?...any act that involves a ceiling fan.

[Wineslob]

dipsydoodle (36,869 posts)
8. Anything involving sheep

There ya go.

[Karin]

It would be anything that hurts in a way you don't want to be.  Simple.

[BadCat]

Now they've alienated the BDSM crowd.

[ColonelCarrots]

Ask David Carradine.

[Ralph Wiggum]

Ask David Carradine.

Or Michael Hutchence of the band INXS...depending on the stories that one believes.

[Delmar]

The keestering that this country is taking from the Kenyan.

[Mr Mannn]

I consider the murder of an innocent baby in the womb to be a horribly violent act. Yet at the DUmp it's akin to a religious sacrament.

I consider homosexual sex to be deviant behavior both mentally and physically. Yet at the DUmp it is treated with religious reverence.

The bottom line: DU is full to the gills with sexual deviants (just ask Will Pitt). They are the very LAST people to preach on morality of any kind.

[Big Dog]

What sexual acts do you consider to be violent?

There is this thing I like to do with a pogo stick, ten pounds of bacon, and a wading pool full of badgers.

Does that count?

[ColonelCarrots]

I remember an EMT telling me a story about a man who had a machine that would shove a log up his butt. Well they found the man with a rather large splinter in him, and he was dead.

[franksolich]

Replace 'violence' with 'homosexuality' and Skidmore won't be posting at "the DU" much longer.

The skidmarked underwear primitive, the disconsolate farmwife in eastern Iowa, has advocated violence herself.

It was sometime in the latter part of the Bush administration, when the Republicans still held Congress (i.e., before Harry and Bela took over in January 2007, when all these problems with the economy began), that some Republican candidates, talking to a crowd at a Unitarian Church somewhere in Virginia were heckled, physically threatened, and shoved out by the attending Democrats.

The skidmarked underwear primitive said she'd like to see more of this sort of thing--I repeat, "like to see more of this sort of thing."

That was at our old home before it crashed, and I copied-and-pasted it for there; I also nominated her for the Top DUmmies of 2007 (but it didn't go anywhere) strictly upon that comment, that she approved of Brown Shirt thug tactics, and wanted to see more of it.

She's a wretched bitch, and if her husband accidentally ran the corn-planter over her, the world would be better off.

[Wineslob]

What sexual acts do you consider to be violent?

An Around the World with a Windmill and ending with a Hole in One.

[98ZJUSMC]

seabeyond (89,357 posts)
36. we also oppose the abuse of the lack of voice.

Lack of voice?  Most (D)emocrats vote twice, or more, all the time.  Hell, in Chicago, you still have a voice after death.  The phuck you mean lack of voice, stupid.

 

[Bad Dog]

There is this thing I like to do with a pogo stick, ten pounds of bacon, and a wading pool full of badgers.

Does that count?

Badgers?  We don't need no stinking badgers.

[JakeStyle]

DUmbass supreme seabeyond got her 6th hidden post in the last 90 days in that thread, I hope they finally shitcan her.

[landofconfusion80]

There is this thing I like to do with a pogo stick, ten pounds of bacon, and a wading pool full of badgers.

Does that count?

Thought I was the only one that did that... so much for creativity.