You're not getting it. It's a simple question with a simple answer.
You want to be respected here. What have you said or done to earn the respect you want?
respect: a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.
I daresay the things I've done in my life would probably not "earn" respect from someone like you.
I'm just a mom, who managed to keep my kids emotionally and spiritually healthy through some amazingly tough times. I've done nothing important, besides raising kids who tell the truth, treat people with respect, and do not argue with one another, or with me.
I'm a compassionate person who spent 20 minutes at the store the other day helping a complete stranger navigate the baking aisle of the store, looking for a cake mix for his wife, cuz he didn't know what she wanted.
And today, I dropped everything I was doing to spend 30 minutes holding my daughter while she cried as she realized that in a few short months, when she graduates high school, the lack of the format of 'school' will likely mean the end of at least half of her friendships..
but you know -- I don't actually *do* anything that deserves respect... not from people like *you*...