I would like to commend BEG and JTY on their ability to have a disagreement on an issue that
is very personal to them in an agreeable manner.
We are friends, WE. Friends can disagree on issues without tearing each other apart. We both have admitted that our experiences vary, but they do indeed color who we are and our perceptions of things. Having lived in a few different places, I know all to well it could just be where I am at the moment and the makeup of how people behave could be entirely different somewhere else. That leaves room for us both to be right in this instance.
Besides that, I'm more of a 'civilized' debater. I believe BEG is as well. That said, WE it was very sweet of you to say as much.
As for you Toasted...the things that tumble about your mind