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Racism is not a personal moral flaw. It's a role you play in a system.
Maybe we need to do a better job of communicating that, but once upon a time DU understood that. The white side of my family in Mississippi were not sick evil people in the 1960's who became less evil over time; they were good people in a sick system that became (somewhat) less sick over time.
Being checked about racism is not an assault on your virtue; it's a reminder of the roles you play often without seeing them. Racism is not about you (sic) and never was, and it doesn't help discussion to take it that way.
Just a multiracial American's (whose kids, inshallah, will be even "more" multiracial) two cents...
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023046106
OK, so they want to define racism to where one is declared racist simply because they were born into a certain race and therefore has advantages over others. Can they get any more immature? Yes, they can.
Let's see it further explained by the OP:
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14. I think the words I bolded are what I really care about: it's not about the "racist".
You see this a lot in responses to sexual harassment too: the response becomes about the harasser to exclusion of the harassee. The person saying or doing something racist may be a very good or very bad person and may have the best or worst intentions but that is completely beside the point either way. It's not about them.
Somebody made a great post when a fan harassed a female author at a sci fi convention last year:
If you step on my foot, you need to get off my foot.
If you step on my foot without meaning to, you need to get off my foot.
If you step on my foot without realizing it, you need to get off my foot.
If everyone in your culture steps on feet, your culture is horrible, and you need to get off my foot.
If you have foot-stepping disease, and it makes you unaware you’re stepping on feet, you need to get off my foot. If an event has rules designed to keep people from stepping on feet, you need to follow them. If you think that even with the rules, you won’t be able to avoid stepping on people’s feet, absent yourself from the event until you work something out.
If you’re a serial foot-stepper, and you feel you’re entitled to step on people’s feet because you’re just that awesome and they’re not really people anyway, you’re a bad person and you don’t get to use any of those excuses, limited as they are. And moreover, you need to get off my foot.
See, that’s why I don’t get the focus on classifying harassers and figuring out their motives. The victims are just as harassed either way.
Yeah, but you didn't address those of us who aren't standing on anybody's foot but are accused of doing so anyway. See, that's where I and many conservatives have always been.
Oh I know, I really am standing on someone's foot but I'm just not willing to accept it. That's a bunch of baloney. The one claiming their foot is being stepped on is capable of lying, right? If not, then you're making these foot stepping victims less than human. In fact, it just could be that society has demonstrated to them that lying about having someone step on your foot could gain them some advantage. That's quite possible, right? Of course it is.
Much to the chagrin of the left, whether one was stepped on and who did the stepping is not solely up to the person making the claim they were stepped on, nor should it be. That viewpoint is ripe for abuse, and it has been used inappropriately for way too long. People who know they aren't stepping on anyone are ignoring those who are hurling accusations that they are. And they should.
JustAnotherGen
1. This is an interesting thread
Another multiracial American here . . . I do feel that being a bigot is a flaw - moral or otherwise. That's just my opinion. I'm also at 40 years of age too damn tired to try and set people straight that are bigots on a day to day basis. My feeling is that this is 2013 and they are already being left behind to wallow in their own ignorance so time is on my side.
Racism (structural and built into society) - I'm in total agreement with. "A reminder of the roles you often play without seeing them." But that's like trying to get SOME white DU'ers to understand white privilege. It's beyond some folks here and they refuse to admit they are the dominant image of 'perfection' in America. They refuse the reality - so they can't be reasoned with.
See, racism is "structural and built into society." You may not have a racist thought or motive in your head, but simply by virtue of you being white, you are racist and don't even realize the privilege you have.
How stupid!
Look libs, normal people just aren't going to live their lives this way; they don't have the time to bother with such nonsense. I go out and do things, I live my life, I enjoy my family and friends (of all races), I work, I enjoy a round of golf every now and then... But, I'm not going to go into a business deal with someone who just happens to be black with some notion that because I'm white there's automatically some racial component involved where I have privileges that the black guy doesn't. That's not how I work, nor is it how other normal people of all races work. I deal with people, not their race. If you want to fret over such mundane things, then feel free. Just leave us real Americans out of it.
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