DUmmy LocoNuts explains his absence

[BattleHymn]

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018607098

Fri Apr 18, 2014, 06:37 PM

Star Member Callmecrazy (1,699 posts)

Locut0s, where are you?
Anybody been in touch with him?

I miss his posts and pics.
I know he was having some issues. Hope he's okay.

In_The_Wind This message was hidden by Jury decision.

I wonder what this said?

Sat Apr 19, 2014, 12:01 AM

Star Member Locut0s (5,586 posts)
8. Hi ITW. Are you saying that I shouldn't have gone or should feel guilty about going?...

As I said below I actually struggled with issues of guilt going on this trip a lot. I told my parents I didn't want to go, that they should go themselves. I certainly didn't fell I deserved this nor did I feel I should be going really. They pretty much insisted I go though and had already booked my ticket.

Fri Apr 18, 2014, 11:58 PM

Star Member Locut0s (5,586 posts)
7. Thanks for enquiring guys! I'm still puttering along...

Thanks for asking about me Callmecrazy, and others, it means a lot. I've been doing OK. A lot better actually this past month or so than the months that preceded it.

Honestly a big part of the reason I have stopped posting is due to shame and guilt over my current situation. I don't feel I deserve to post right now. That and while I've been slightly better recently I've been overall too fragile emotionally to want to wade into the morass that is your average internet forum, even one as nice as this. It's difficult to explain my emotional problems and frankly I don't understand them myself all that well. They aren't usually of the acute emergency variety nor do they stem from any obvious reactionary source. They are more a life long issue, going as far back as my toddler years, a mixture of some form of personality disorder, social anxiety and avoidance and some form of more existential anxiety and depression. As such they aren't well understood by many as I usually seem like a normal, well rounded person with no possible good excuses for his issues. They haven't prevented me from for example taking that trip to Hawii, though I struggled with guilt about this a lot. They have been serious enough though to prevent me from building any semblance of a normal life. And I do sometimes enter some very very dark periods, such as 5 or 6 months ago.

My intentions have been to remain on hiatus here until I've managed to build something of a working life and feel guilt free enough to post again. Util such time I'm likely to remain fairly silent. I may post photo's from time to time such as the last batch, as photography is one of the few passions I still have that I feel strongly enough to overcome these feelings.

Thanks for the concern everyone.

Sat Apr 19, 2014, 12:08 AM

Star Member Arcanetrance (2,514 posts)
9. As someone who struggle with emotional and mental issues I wish you the best and hope you recover

I can definitely understand the guilt in taking a trip to Hawaii you don't feel you deserve.

[USA4ME]

I wonder what this said?

In_The_Wind

4. Must be nice to vacation in Hawaii.
 
just sayin'

Not anything really. They're a little touchy about their admitted nutjobs over there, I'd say.

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[JohnnyReb]

They're all ticking time bombs that we may see in the news at any moment.

[Dori]

They're all ticking time bombs that we may see in the news at any moment.

It's amazing to me to see so many people with so many mental issues in one place.  Must be a prerequisite to being a liberal. 

[Mr Mannn]

I'm kinda thinking his parents took him to Hawaii to keep him from having an anxiety attack and killing himself whilst they are gone.

They probably wouldn't miss him, but the clean up, new carpet, paying for their possessions he might have sold in their absence...probably cheaper to take the basket case with you.

[Ptarmigan]

They're all ticking time bombs that we may see in the news at any moment.

As much as I laugh at DUmmies, they can be a real scary bunch that could one day lash out.

[GOBUCKS]

LocoNuts is crazier than a shithouse rat, but he's still more normal than nadin.

[SarasotaRepub]

I don't blame his parents for insisting he go with them. I wouldn't want to
take the chance on the moron offing himself and coming home to a dead,
smelly, corpse.

[landofconfusion80]

I don't blame his parents for insisting he go with them. I wouldn't want to
take the chance on the moron offing himself and coming home to a dead,
smelly, corpse.

Do they offer a doggy daycare experience for these kinds of people?  I could see his dad and his mom exchanging resentful glances at each other across a high class Hawaiian restaurant table while their adult son trembles the water glasses as he pleasures himself under the tablecloth.  It can't really make the vacation experience any better having extra baggage along.  

This coward had a fantastic opportunity to make his parents' lives so much better while he was there... perfectly good volcanoes to jump into, a big jungle to wander off into, or perhaps a huge ocean in which to drown.  The opportunities are endless.

[obumazombie]

It's very telling that libs are unable to unravel their intertwined emotional and intellectual problems. They can't tell the difference.

[RobJohnson]

I don't blame his parents for insisting he go with them. I wouldn't want to
take the chance on the moron offing himself and coming home to a dead,
smelly, corpse.

 

[dane]

I just read Loconuts' explanation for not posting.  He is one sick puppy.

Honestly a big part of the reason I have stopped posting is due to shame and guilt over my current situation. I don't feel I deserve to post right now

Shame and guilt will keep him from typing on an anonymous forum where most of the other posters are equally screwed up, but the level of shame and guilt will not keep him from a trip to Hawaii, will not keep him from living at home with the parents feeding him, will not keep him in some sort of school (paid for by those same long suffering parents), and so on.

Shame and guilt will only keep him away from the DUmmies, but first he has to tell them his shame and guilt are to blame for his absence.

[obumazombie]

Shame and guilt got owebuma elected.

[tanstaafl]

I don't blame his parents for insisting he go with them. I wouldn't want to
take the chance on the moron offing himself and coming home to a dead,
smelly, corpse.

As opposed to a LIVE smelly nutso cowering in a corner.

I think they cut their losses. Take Coocoo with them and spoil their vacation or come home and have him ruin their homecoming (not to mention the carpet!). At least they can control his actions and lead him to the bathroom when in proximity.

[Carl]

Honestly a big part of the reason I have stopped posting is due to shame and guilt over my current situation. I don't feel I deserve to post right now. That and while I've been slightly better recently I've been overall too fragile emotionally to want to wade into the morass that is your average internet forum

Grow the **** up dipshit...maybe you are not as much crazy as you are a crybaby loser.

[98ZJUSMC]

I'm kinda thinking his parents took him to Hawaii to keep him from having an anxiety attack and killing himself whilst they are gone.

They probably wouldn't miss him, but the clean up, new carpet, paying for their possessions he might have sold in their absence...probably cheaper to take the basket case with you.

Heh..agreed, but isn't this Hawaii vacation number two, or is it three or four for the original footie pajama boi?

[Big Dog]

In_The_Wind

4. Must be nice to vacation in Hawaii.
 
just sayin'

If the old whore had spent the '70s blowing guys for furs and BMWs, instead of blowing guys for $5 bags of weed, she'd be retired in Hawaii today!