You first!
And if (notice I didn't type "when") you find any, let us know, from downwind.
Reminds me of a class I had in nursing school where the subject was " No one has a perfect childhood."
Since when was childhood supposed to be perfect with no problems to over come and all is strawberry fields forever ??? No disappointments, no reality of life, birth and death of family members ??? No pet ever die, no friend moves away, parents are less then human with no faults or problems of their own.
The most successful friends I ever had came up the brutal way in life, they knew at a young age they would have to work around the foibles of family, friends and outsiders.
They did as childhood is for training children to survive as Adults, to think for themselves and get around the horrid things that can happen to children as they grow up.
Now we have a parent that is so disappointed in how his children turned out-------Did this parent in any way finance his children's choices in life ??
Did this parent in any way give silent concent to his children to continue on the stair way to hell ???
Did this parent bail them out of jail or pay off their debts in some fashion. ???
Balderdash, disappoint with a child comes when most is expected and the child does not come through.