I know it when I see it. Just would prefer if it didn't detract from the points I was trying to get across.
Besides the ones on your head?
Look, scooter, here's the deal--I've lived my life by the principle of the meritocracy--if you've earned it, it's yours. Color, sex, national origin, what have you, it matters not.
Now I'm being told that such a policy is "unfair" because not enough of a certain class who can check off certain boxes qualify, so we keep the standards high for some, and lower it for others.
THAT'S not racism? Oh, poor (insert group here), sorry you're too stupid/slow/whatever to play with us, we'll just lower YOUR standards so you can FEEL better, nevermind that you really shouldn't be here. And what if those barriers (slow/stupid/whatever) are SELF-IMPOSED? I'm supposed to let more deserving recipients step aside so someone can get a "hand up"? Really? Whatever happened to hands up versus handouts?
Would you not agree that something EARNED is valued more than something merely given?
And yeah, if you have to refer to someone as "my black/brown/green/purple with pink polka dots friend" as opposed to simply, "my friend," then I humbly suggest you look at yourself first, mkay?