It was much, much easier to defend liberal tax and redistribution policies when I was working full-time and paying more taxes as a single person with no kids than my other coworkers. I never complained about the fact I was paying more because they had larger families and child tax credits, even though our salaries were averaging the same. It seemed fair since I could afford it more than they could. Now that I'm on the taking end insofar as becoming a participant in my state's Medicaid expansion, those arguments become much harder to make. I still pay some taxes, but your tax dollars are going to buy me a plan on the Exchange. That's not something I can tell you is right, all I can say is that I'm grateful and hopeful that proper medical and psychiatric treatment will actually save taxpayers money in the end.
See, though, it's that attitude that supports the liberal assumption that people would only be charitable if forced -- that people in general do not see charity as an obligation but rather a decision. Not trying to be offensive. I'm sure you and your family actually do donate to charities that you feel are worthwhile causes, or tithe at church, or voluntarily give another way even if only of your time. But that's one argument that's often used. And I can understand anger about being forced into ANYthing.
Consider the fact that our own vice president, Joe Biden, gives very little of his money to charity. But he sure screams that there are PEOPLE IN NEED. In fact, we give MORE to charity than Biden has ever done. The Obamas never gave to charity until they needed to, to make themselves look good to voters.
We NEVER give money to the Red Cross, United Way, or any of these other national charities because far too much of it goes to "administrative costs," and far too little goes to those actually in need.
The liberals in government don't care about those in need. Those in need are just pawns in the liberal party's need for power and control over those tax dollars. I liken it to a silly child's game. Hand Barack Obama one hundred $1 bills and there will be two stacks. The stack with $2 in it goes to the people in need. The stack with $98 goes to administrative costs, lobbyists, and government employees.
And there's the problem, and that is why people are so resentful of having to hand over their hard-earned money to the government.