Let's see, 31, lives at home. No friends. Mental issues. Never had a girlfriend. Thinks he has anything other than a bland and arrogant personality. Doesn't do anything interesting, at all. Thinks the only important part of a woman is betwen her legs. Is Locut0s the same person as Christian Weston Chandler?
Seriously Locut0s, if you are just trying to get laid, then go to backpage.com and look in the adult/escorts section. If you want a real relationship, then go start actually living. Those idiots on DU won't tell you that, and your psychologist charges for the advice I'm giving for free.
Dishonest is worse than loser, and right now you are managing to be both.