On Christmas Eve, promptly at 5:00 p.m., I showed up where I was supposed to be, to have dinner with my hostess from Thanksgiving and her extended family. Besides she and her husband, her niece was there with her family, husband and three adolescent sons.
It was a good time, spend over turkey, mashed potatoes, gravy, fresh corn, fresh peas, whole-wheat rolls with real butter, cherry pie, and coffee and milk; what a proper Christmas dinner is. The conversation was mostly idle chitchat about family and people in town.
Near the end, the matter of Christmas presents came up (like franksolich, they open theirs on Christmas morning, instead of prematurely on Christmas Eve; these are not impatient people wanting quick immediate gratification), and I mentioned that the
femme earlier that day had “insisted†I open my present from her, and that I was impressed.
It was a paperweight, in the form of St. Edward’s crown, about as tall as my thumb and of course bigger around, made to commemorate the 60th anniversary of the accession of H.M. the Queen. It came with a “certificate of authenticity†in a wooden box, alleging it was a “limited edition†and that “only†6,000 had been made.
I had assumed the stones were fake, until the
femme ran one of them along the side of a Mason jar of home-made jelly, scratching the glass--a thing I later demonstrated to the property caretaker. They’re real diamonds--but only chips of diamonds at that--slightly above industrial grade, but they’re real diamonds.
“That’s a wonderful gift,†my hostess said; “I don’t think anybody could possibly top that.â€
I heaved a sigh of relief; I wasn’t to get a Christmas present from her after all.
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But my hopes were dashed when, upon getting ready to depart, the hostess did give me a present, wrapped in a box about half the size of a shoe-box, with the jeweler’s trademark on the gift-tag, and yes, it weighed about as much as that particular item I had held on Thanksgiving Day, and alas commented upon how wonderful it was.
I was cornered, but sort of left off the hook when she reminded me, “Now, you’re supposed to open it at home, on Christmas Day, not right now.â€
In the kitchen, I told the niece, “You know, I really can’t take this; it has tremendous sentimental value to your family, and I’d be a heel to take it away from you. She means well, but she’d do better having you have it.â€
“Oh no,†the niece said; “she’d asked me about it Thanksgiving night, if I minded, and I said of course not. There’s so many family relics here that this one thing doesn’t amount to anything. She wants you to have it, and so take it, with all the family’s good wishes.â€
Damn.
So I returned home. It was still bitterly cold, probably either +3 or -3 degrees, something like that, and I put the wrapped present on the dining room table with all the other presents, thinking I’d get around to opening it up sooner or later.
Then I slept for a while, and got up at 4:00 a.m. to start cooking the turkey for the neighbor’s wife, as she’d instructed. It was far too cold to kick the cats outside, and so I risked keeping them in as I used the natural gas stove, fervently hoping that if it exploded, the cats would merely be flung out over to the next county rather than blown to pieces.
I survived; the turkey got cooked okay, and the neighbor's wife was here circa 9:00 a.m. to finish it up before taking it home.