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Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« on: October 14, 2012, 06:58:40 PM »
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Well I just got dumped.
By my boyfriend of almost five years. Met someone else. Told me over the phone. We live in different states so maybe it was inevitable. But it still sucks. He was here a couple of weekends ago and gave no inkling he had met someone else. I don't know what to do. I begged and pleaded with him, to no avail.

I feel sick.

 :lol: Why would he want to hook up with a tramp?

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61. I think all the advice here had been pretty good.

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I know, at least in my head, that I won't always feel like this, but damn if I can even get through an hour without crying. I'm sure people at work are wondering why my eyes are all red.

How desperate is she if she gets this upset over a long distance relationship!

Odds are he was tapping someone else.

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3. I'm sorry. It sucks.

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There is no good answer to what you are going through.

I've been there. It is terrible.

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11. I'm too old to start over

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I thought he was it for me. Who's going to want me?

A blind, one armed fiddle player.

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17. You are never too old to start over.

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I got married for the first time at age 47.

It is now thirteen years and going strong.

What species?

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116. I think that all the time....

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any never go out & the other day I went to the library & ran into 3 very nice women very very nice to me.

I am still grieving a terrible loss my self & was nervous & stammering & made no connection BUT I saw I was not worthless!!

I had not shaved for 2-3 weeks & looked pretty scruffy, manson like & some people were still friendly to me, I could not believe it.

Long greyish hair, long grey beard & mustache is pretty bad too, I may let it go & do a fu man chu, and I am over 50 also.

 :stoner:

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9. But I can't start over at my age; I just can't

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I'm 44. Whose going to want me? Some fat ****ing redneck. No thanks.

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102. I'm a 45 woman and recently broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years

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I have to color my gray hair, I am perimenopausal (hot flashes SUCK so bad lol) I have arthritic knees...Oh did I mention that I broke up with HIM? No, there was no one else. The relationship was just stagnant and going nowhere and I decided life was too darn short to be stuck in a rut. And I'm not worried at all about having to starting over as a middle aged woman, in fact I'm have the time of my life and enjoying the single life so much! It's "me" time that I haven't had in years - I'm doing stuff like taking classes, working out, traveling, dancing, going to concerts, meeting people, painting.... And YES I get asked out on dates all the time (not one has been a fat redneck). I'm in no hurry to "get a man". In fact I find life is much less complicated without one right now. When the time comes and the right person comes along, maybe, but right now I'm working on myself and have grown so much! Love your life and be happy and people will be attracted to you. Positive energy attracts positive energy!

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72. Hey, I happen to be 50

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So it is not like you are too old for me.

Also, at my last reunion, there were six guys there who had never been married - Me, John, TomO, Doug, Steve, and Keith.

So, there's six unmarried 50 year old guys (unless some of them got married in the last two years).

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46. Wow. He's already unfriended me on Facebook

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I mean, let the body cool a little bit.

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84. Is he ever going to talk to me again?

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He's unfriended me on Facebook, not responded to a text or email. I yelled a lot when he called me to tell me we were through, but I'm worried he'll never speak to me again, in any medium. I told him I hoped he died. I wrote to apologize but have heard nothing back.

I sure do love these DUmmies tales of woe.
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #1 on: October 14, 2012, 07:06:50 PM »


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7. I was sort of ugly to him on the phone

In fact I think I told him to **** off and die. I hope his new girlfriend dumps him right away.

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46. Wow. He's already unfriended me on Facebook

I mean, let the body cool a little bit.


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84. Is he ever going to talk to me again?

He's unfriended me on Facebook, not responded to a text or email. I yelled a lot when he called me to tell me we were through, but I'm worried he'll never speak to me again, in any medium. I told him I hoped he died. I wrote to apologize but have heard nothing back.
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #2 on: October 14, 2012, 07:12:41 PM »
I don't know. 5 years in a long distance relationship usually means it was pretty serious tucker. Nobody stays involved in something that complicated unless they feel very strongly for that person and they have made mutual plans for a future together. Sounds to me like he wanted out and waited until he found someone else to ease his own loneliness of ending it. I think it's a pretty shitty thing to do considering the amount of trust you have to place in one another in a Relationship of that sort.

I also get all her feelings of feeling worthless as a middle aged woman. It's a complicated time for a woman, especially one ending a long term relationship o any kind. Trust me if she was a tramp shed probably take it much easier. Easy come easy go and al.

The only thing I'll call her out on os the fat redneck comment. Must they bring their perceived stereotypes into everything?
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #3 on: October 14, 2012, 07:27:10 PM »
Has anyone alerted steven numbers?

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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #4 on: October 14, 2012, 07:43:47 PM »
Quote from: jtyangel on October 14, 2012, 07:12:41 PM
I don't know. 5 years in a long distance relationship usually means it was pretty serious tucker. Nobody stays involved in something that complicated unless they feel very strongly for that person and they have made mutual plans for a future together. Sounds to me like he wanted out and waited until he found someone else to ease his own loneliness of ending it. I think it's a pretty shitty thing to do considering the amount of trust you have to place in one another in a Relationship of that sort.

I also get all her feelings of feeling worthless as a middle aged woman. It's a complicated time for a woman, especially one ending a long term relationship o any kind. Trust me if she was a tramp shed probably take it much easier. Easy come easy go and al.

The only thing I'll call her out on os the fat redneck comment. Must they bring their perceived stereotypes into everything?

I guess I'm more of a traditionalist. As long as she was putting out, he had no reason to make it more serious that it was, just a warm body to screw. He didn't work, so she was paying for entertainment expenses, until he found someone closer to home.

By her own words, she didn't want to get married, just shack up. That's a tramp.
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #5 on: October 14, 2012, 07:48:56 PM »
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I'm 44. Whose going to want me? Some fat ****ing redneck. No thanks.

I'm sure the fat ****ing rednecks feel the same way, hon, specially with that attitude you're displaying.
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #6 on: October 14, 2012, 07:58:00 PM »
Quote from: Tucker on October 14, 2012, 07:43:47 PM
I guess I'm more of a traditionalist. As long as she was putting out, he had no reason to make it more serious that it was, just a warm body to screw. He didn't work, so she was paying for entertainment expenses, until he found someone closer to home.

By her own words, she didn't want to get married, just shack up. That's a tramp.
Eh Some folks have reasons keeping them apart.Raising kids...jobs...While i see your point about the dummie setting herself up for this because she didn't want to get too serious there are many other folks in this situation of their own choosing because they have found the person they want to be with...the putting out thing is a part of the relationship but by no means all of it.
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #7 on: October 14, 2012, 08:05:34 PM »
Quote from: Toastedturningtidelegs on October 14, 2012, 07:58:00 PM
Eh Some folks have reasons keeping them apart.Raising kids...jobs...While i see your point about the dummie setting herself up for this because she didn't want to get too serious there are many other folks in this situation of their own choosing because they have found the person they want to be with...the putting out thing is a part of the relationship but by no means all of it.

Trust me, I was no saint, but I would never let things go on indefinitely.

The DUmmies downfall was by her own design.
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #8 on: October 14, 2012, 10:10:08 PM »
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I'm 44. Whose going to want me? Some fat ****ing redneck. No thanks.
Well, DUmmy alarimer, a fat f*****g redneck is probably about as much as a fat f*****g moonbat can get.
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #9 on: October 14, 2012, 10:16:27 PM »
Even a fat f*****g redneck, would not touch  a fat f*****g moonbat with a ten foot frog gig.
That's just too nasty.









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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #10 on: October 14, 2012, 10:23:30 PM »
Are we sure alarimer is a woman? :rotf:

44... :bawl: :sad1:
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #11 on: October 15, 2012, 03:04:14 AM »
Quote from: Linda on October 14, 2012, 10:16:27 PM
Even a fat f*****g redneck, would not touch  a fat f*****g moonbat with a ten foot frog gig.
That's just too nasty.









*Posted to get off the 666 post #.

You got that right!

Even fat f*****g rednecks have their standards.

There are just some things a fat f*****g redneck ain't gonna do!   :-)
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #12 on: October 15, 2012, 03:24:19 AM »
Quote from: diesel driver on October 15, 2012, 03:04:14 AM
You got that right!

Even fat f*****g rednecks have their standards.

There are just some things a fat f*****g redneck ain't gonna do!   :-)

Although the creation of Honey Boo-Boo Child means that list ain't very long...just sayin...

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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #13 on: October 15, 2012, 06:24:15 AM »
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Are we sure alarimer is a woman? :rotf:

44... :bawl: :sad1:

No.

Up until tonight, I thought it was male.

I know, never assume as it still may be..
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #14 on: October 15, 2012, 08:12:23 AM »
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Well I just got dumped.
By my boyfriend of almost five years. Met someone else. Told me over the phone. We live in different states so maybe it was inevitable. But it still sucks. He was here a couple of weekends ago and gave no inkling he had met someone else. I don't know what to do. I begged and pleaded with him, to no avail.

I feel sick.

Dear Alarimer,

  What you were was a 5 year booty call whenever he was in the state.  Most likely he's had this other girl for the same amount of time but living right there with him.  You got dumped in all likelhood because he decided to marry the other girl.  Hence his disconnection from any kind of communication with you.
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #16 on: October 15, 2012, 08:43:25 AM »
At least she's not being raped anymore:

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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #17 on: October 15, 2012, 09:12:14 AM »
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It appears to be female.

From the pic thread.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1018&pid=213118

Not totally butt-ugly, looks kinda butch for my taste, though.
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« Reply #18 on: October 15, 2012, 09:20:10 AM »
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Not totally butt-ugly, looks kinda butch for my taste, though.

Needs to wear a bra.

On the other hand, lint can't get in her belly button.
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #19 on: October 15, 2012, 09:44:45 AM »
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #20 on: October 15, 2012, 09:51:03 AM »
Quote from: Tucker on October 14, 2012, 07:43:47 PM
I guess I'm more of a traditionalist. As long as she was putting out, he had no reason to make it more serious that it was, just a warm body to screw. He didn't work, so she was paying for entertainment expenses, until he found someone closer to home.

By her own words, she didn't want to get married, just shack up. That's a tramp.

Never have understood that shacking up shit. I thought all these primitives even want marriage for same sex couples. It can work for them but you just want to shack up?

Logic is not one of yer strong points, is it?

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Dear Alarimer,

  What you were was a 5 year booty call whenever he was in the state.  Most likely he's had this other girl for the same amount of time but living right there with him.  You got dumped in all likelhood because he decided to marry the other girl.  Hence his disconnection from any kind of communication with you.

Good point Tex! There are a lot of guys who want their cake and eat it too.

I knew a guy who tried to keep 3 girlfriends happy at the same time. Worked pretty good for a while since he was a trucker, shit hit the fan when they found out about each other.

He had proposed to one after a 3 year courtship, so cut off the other two. Long story short is, they ended up communicatin' with each other and not one will have a damn thing to do with him now!

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At least she's not being raped anymore:
 

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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #21 on: October 15, 2012, 10:21:12 AM »
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Logic is not one of yer strong points, is it?



Mine?
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« Reply #22 on: October 15, 2012, 10:50:52 AM »
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Mine?

Of coarse not Tuck! I was speakin' of the DUmmie. They're logic just escapes me. I'm a chess player from way back when and some of the moves these idiots make defy intelligent solutions.
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #23 on: October 15, 2012, 11:25:58 AM »
Are you kidding? DUmmy stevenumbers would tap that in a New York minute. She's in NC and stevenumbers is in FL, so relief is only a few hours away.
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Re: Now for something enjoyable- alarimer just got DUmped on- a few days old
« Reply #24 on: October 15, 2012, 12:10:23 PM »
Quote from: Tucker on October 14, 2012, 08:05:34 PM
Trust me, I was no saint, but I would never let things go on indefinitely.

The DUmmies downfall was by her own design.
Meh! I'm in a long distance relationship and i can honestly say the thought of stepping out on my girl has never crossed my mind. We have to be more then the sum of our sex parts.I have infinite respect for her as my girl and my best friend.Would bother me alot if i gave in to that.She's alot more to me then just a piece of ass.
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