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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #25 on: October 14, 2012, 10:43:19 AM »
I was upset when a stranger say a waitress called me Honey or Hun.  



Guess you haven't spent any time in Baltimore, then. Everyone here uses 'hon'-checker at the Wal-Mart, waitress at any given restaurant, guy who fixes your cars or appliances. If you've lived in Maryland and haven't been asked 'You goin' downy ocean, hon?' then you haven't really lived here.

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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #26 on: October 14, 2012, 10:44:04 AM »
:banghead: my Husband does that if the hug goes on too long.

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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #27 on: October 14, 2012, 10:49:57 AM »
My mother, who lives in an apartment attached to my house, once was on a kick in which she said she missed my dad hugging her every day and she loved me and wished I would hug her more.

It did not work.

If I go a week without seeing her she gets a quick hug...(I had to really work up to that point...like I said, I'm not a hugger...)

I might sound cold hearted but my mom has avoided going to a long term care home due to sacrifices I made in my life....that is worth a million hugs. I put my life on hold so she is able to have the best care any mother can have. I take care of my mom and I send my married sister (who is now also a full time student) money...I am too tired to be ****ing hugging people... :lmao:

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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #28 on: October 14, 2012, 10:54:56 AM »
Awesome Rob!

BTW, men never seem to grow up, my Husband thinks noogies are a sign of affection.
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #29 on: October 14, 2012, 10:59:59 AM »
Guess you haven't spent any time in Baltimore, then. Everyone here uses 'hon'-checker at the Wal-Mart, waitress at any given restaurant, guy who fixes your cars or appliances. If you've lived in Maryland and haven't been asked 'You goin' downy ocean, hon?' then you haven't really lived here.

I have customers and coworkers that call people hun of both sexes. It's habit.

I am not offended if an 80 year old lady says "thanks sweetie"  Older customers have no problem when one of my older cashiers tell them "you have a nice day dear" they appreciate it.

We have people that migrate to our area to retire in the warmer climate. No worries, no law suits, no cops in the bushes, or in our case, tumbleweeds.....

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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #30 on: October 14, 2012, 12:07:02 PM »
I hug people when I get really excited to see them.  No asking here.  I just run up and give them a hug.  No hugs for strangers though, because that's just weird.
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #31 on: October 14, 2012, 12:15:26 PM »
I hug people when I get really excited to see them.  No asking here.  I just run up and give them a hug.  No hugs for strangers though, because that's just weird.

If you did that to me, that wouldn't bother me at all. O-) :-) :tongue:
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #32 on: October 14, 2012, 12:36:08 PM »
Not much of a hugger except for "Toots", my daughter, and granddaughters. I do tend to call cashiers of the female persuasion dear or cutie. Never had a complaint. Most consider it a compliment.

Have been known to give my pals a bear hug, but I don't think that's what y'all are discussin' here. It tends to be painful for the receiver, doncha know!
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #33 on: October 14, 2012, 12:58:41 PM »
[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=vFdj-s08UJQ[/youtube]

Elizabeth Laird, known as "The Hug Lady," by the soldiers at Ft. Hood, attends every single deployment and homecoming at the army base with one purpose: to hug every soldier going to or returning from war.
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #34 on: October 14, 2012, 01:11:05 PM »
She's adorable!
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #35 on: October 14, 2012, 01:39:40 PM »
If I ever got to meet you guys at a meetup I'd probably hug all of you, heck I'd even hug some DU people because I feel like I know you LOL.

We can be the errant huggers ie me too lol

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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #36 on: October 14, 2012, 01:42:13 PM »
Guess you haven't spent any time in Baltimore, then. Everyone here uses 'hon'-checker at the Wal-Mart, waitress at any given restaurant, guy who fixes your cars or appliances. If you've lived in Maryland and haven't been asked 'You goin' downy ocean, hon?' then you haven't really lived here.

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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #37 on: October 14, 2012, 01:55:34 PM »
LOL, in my family, we hug.  You find that out pretty quick if you find yourself in a relationship with one of us. 

Same here.   

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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #38 on: October 14, 2012, 02:29:45 PM »
Not much of a hugger except for "Toots", my daughter, and granddaughters. I do tend to call cashiers of the female persuasion dear or cutie. Never had a complaint. Most consider it a compliment.


I always call the younger ones sweetie. Never had a complaint... and if I did I would ask them "Is it OK if I call you bitch, then?"   :fuelfire: :fuelfire:


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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #39 on: October 14, 2012, 04:42:11 PM »
Anyone who hugs a stranger actually wants a pat on the ass.

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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #40 on: October 14, 2012, 04:48:39 PM »
Anyone who hugs a stranger actually wants a pat on the ass.

Ooooooo, that'd get yer ass kicked with some of the women I know!
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #41 on: October 14, 2012, 05:03:32 PM »
Textbook example of an unwanted hug:


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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #42 on: October 14, 2012, 06:36:49 PM »
I always call the younger ones sweetie. Never had a complaint... and if I did I would ask them "Is it OK if I call you bitch, then?"   :fuelfire: :fuelfire:


 :-)

I've noticed that the much older black woman in our area will say, "Hi there baby doll!"  or something to that extent.  They like to use "baby" in their greetings.  It doesn't matter if they are talking to someone my age or to a child.  It threw me off at first, but it has turned into a norm around here.
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #43 on: October 14, 2012, 07:14:27 PM »
I would hug everyone of you!!! Cause you are all the sweetest people I know...
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #44 on: October 14, 2012, 07:27:45 PM »
I would hug everyone of you!!! Cause you are all the sweetest people I know...

Been accused of a lot of things, sweet is not one of them, cutie.
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #45 on: October 14, 2012, 07:29:58 PM »
I've noticed that the much older black woman in our area will say, "Hi there baby doll!"  or something to that extent.  They like to use "baby" in their greetings.  It doesn't matter if they are talking to someone my age or to a child.  It threw me off at first, but it has turned into a norm around here.

I've been called sugar , sweetie , honey, baby etc

Been told to "sit your white ass down and eat something" and " just plant your damn Yankee butt in that chair and be quiet"  :hyper:
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #46 on: October 14, 2012, 07:31:36 PM »
I've been called sugar , sweetie , honey, baby etc

Been told to "sit your white ass down and eat something" and " just plant your damn Yankee butt in that chair and be quiet"  :hyper:

Heh! Most words used to describe me are in the four letter category!
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #47 on: October 14, 2012, 07:32:58 PM »
Heh! Most words used to describe me are in the four letter category!

Been called a few my self. For the world of me I don't know why  O-)
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #48 on: October 14, 2012, 07:36:01 PM »
Heh! Most words used to describe me are in the four letter category!

Heh! I consider that a compliment from what I am usually called.   :-) :-)
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Re: primitives discuss women who hug without asking first
« Reply #49 on: October 14, 2012, 07:40:04 PM »
Heh! I consider that a compliment from what I am usually called.   :-) :-)

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