You aren't alone...I call into my boys 
They are mortified...well the non autistic one is 
Hey, I have an autsie...there are actual vile disgusting perverts out there who troll for boys like him because they can not communicate(ie tell they are being abused). I watch him like a hawk and have a thumb on my other two--often without them knowing so they can have some semblence f normalcy. I can tell you though, the perverts have been out there forever. I didn't want to raise the kids where I'm from because I could recall as a child a few instances of flashers--not kidding you...my mom ran one off in a dept store with the store manager's help and the other drove by me when I was a younger teen and he was jerking off. There were a couple of others too that I'll leave off so not to totally scare the frick out of my fellow parents here. ****ing disgusting perverts out there.
Public swimming in Napa CA. The pools were graduated, 2 feet for toddlers, ran down into a 3 foot pool, then a 6 foot pool for Adults.
I watching my kids, especially the boys playing Submarine at the botton of the 2 foot pool farting to watch the bubbles come to the surface.
I looked up at the hills and saw this strange man dark tanned except for bathing suite area that was fish belly white.
My 10 year old daughter came over and asked what I was staring at, I showed her the man and we watched as he kind of rocked back and forth. We got the 3 little ones out of the pool and the sharp eyes of the 6 year old saw the man had a dick and was waving it about.
We packed up and on the way walking out I passed a grand pa with some kids. I told him about the man and he told me to call the police and report a lily waver. Then he continued into the park with the kids. No concern from him,
like this was quite normal. No Fuc*ing pervert was going to take away from his time with the kids.
Today I wonder how people with children manage in this world to ignore the creeps to go one with their lives?
Kids see all this and if one ignores this then the kids think this is normal. Walk past 2 gay men kissing and fondling on the street and ignore them, the kids see and think nothing of it.
JTY, raising kids has never been easy, I have no idea how to do so with a handicapped child. You can keep your thumb on the special needs child until they are adult, but what comes next. The children with no special needs may in fact be more in danger then their sibling, one Hell of a job you have there JTY, God bless you.
