What your mother is doing is abuse. She's chipping away at your self-esteem.
When was it that the moonbats invented this mysterious quality of "self-esteem"?
I'm pretty sure I never heard of it until maybe less than 20 years ago. I'm certain no one had it when I was a kid, and far as I know, no one felt poorly about not having it.
Now queers apparently need it, and moonbats always claim a shortage of it leads to the commission of felonies! Most criminals aren't criminals these days, they're just running low on self esteem.
Apparently, we normal people have it in abundance without even being aware of it. When you're not a criminal or a queer, self esteem must just come with the territory.