« previous next »
Pages: [1]   Go Down

Author Topic: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?  (Read 3998 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Offline Lauri

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 3636
  • Reputation: +143/-18
Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« on: February 06, 2008, 11:18:36 PM »
Quote
querelle  Donating Member  (1000+ posts) Wed Feb-06-08 10:06 PM
Original message
Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
   
I am right now and have never been happier. We play safe and the sex is phenomenal...............

Q


http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=105x7441352



well, here's a new nutter to watch  :thatsright:


« Last Edit: February 06, 2008, 11:32:03 PM by Lord Undies »
Logged

Offline Lauri

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 3636
  • Reputation: +143/-18
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #1 on: February 06, 2008, 11:19:57 PM »
so far, of the responses, most say they would date an HIV + person...  :popcorn:
Logged

Offline Lord Undies

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 11388
  • Reputation: +639/-250
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #2 on: February 06, 2008, 11:26:55 PM »
If I had a mole I would go to DU and encourage it. 
Logged

Offline Lauri

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 3636
  • Reputation: +143/-18
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #3 on: February 06, 2008, 11:28:47 PM »
Quote from: Lord Undies on February 06, 2008, 11:26:55 PM
If I had a mole I would go to DU and encourage it. 


and being a dude, i think you could get away with that..  :-)
Logged

Offline SSG Snuggle Bunny

  • Global Moderator
  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 23048
  • Reputation: +2232/-269
  • Voted Rookie-of-the-Year, 3 years running
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #4 on: February 06, 2008, 11:31:27 PM »
Quote from: Lauri on February 06, 2008, 11:18:36 PM
  querelle  Donating Member  (1000+ posts) Wed Feb-06-08 10:06 PM
Original message
Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
   
I am right now and have never been happier. We play safe and the sex is phenomenal...............

Q
You make Darwin LOL
Logged
According to the Bible, "know" means "yes."

Offline jtyangel

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 9116
  • Reputation: +497/-110
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #5 on: February 07, 2008, 06:35:27 AM »
Quote from: Lauri on February 06, 2008, 11:19:57 PM
so far, of the responses, most say they would date an HIV + person...  :popcorn:

You know, I get the feeling this is not even what some of them believe, they just will follow the herd with whatever is popular at the time. Children, all of them.

So let me see, dating a conservative is out, dating someone with a life-threatening disease that can be transmitted via shared intimate contact is dandy.  :banghead:
Logged

Offline DumbAss Tanker

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 28493
  • Reputation: +1707/-151
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #6 on: February 07, 2008, 07:03:53 AM »
Hmmm, let me see, my Risk Management Meter seems to be pegging on HELL NO!

 :mental:
Logged
Go and tell the Spartans, O traveler passing by
That here, obedient to their law, we lie.

Anything worth shooting once is worth shooting at least twice.

Offline Rebel

  • Stick a fork in us. We're done.
  • Administrator
  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 16767
  • Reputation: +1239/-215
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #7 on: February 07, 2008, 07:25:15 AM »
If this isn't proof positive that it's all about "feelings", I don't know what is. Snugs, spot on. Darwin is laughing his ass off.
Logged
NAMBLA is a left-wing organization.

Quote
There's a reason why patriotism is considered a conservative value. Watch a Tea Party rally and you'll see people proudly raising the American flag and showing pride in U.S. heroes such as Thomas Jefferson. Watch an OWS rally and you'll see people burning the American flag while showing pride in communist heroes such as Che Guevera. --Bob, from some news site

Offline Chris_

  • Little Lebowski Urban Achiever
  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 46845
  • Reputation: +2028/-266
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #8 on: February 07, 2008, 07:31:35 AM »
There's no words for that kind of stupid.
Logged
If you want to worship an orange pile of garbage with a reckless disregard for everything, get on down to Arbys & try our loaded curly fries.

Offline dutch508

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 12522
  • Reputation: +1647/-1068
  • Remember
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #9 on: February 07, 2008, 07:45:57 AM »
Crap. I hate being the people of reaon here.  :banghead:

If I fell in love with someone and later found out she had HIV, then I am not sure what I would do. If she was up front about having HIV on the first date it would be a huge red flag, however.
Logged
The torch of moral clarity since 12/18/07

2016 DOTY: 06 Omaha Steve - Is dying for ****'s face! How could you not vote for him, you heartless bastards!?!

Offline jukin

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 15747
  • Reputation: +1722/-170
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #10 on: February 07, 2008, 09:33:11 AM »
Quote from: dutch508 on February 07, 2008, 07:45:57 AM
Crap. I hate being the people of reaon here.  :banghead:

If I fell in love with someone and later found out he had HIV, then I am not sure what I would do. If he was up front about having HIV on the first date it would be a huge red flag, however.

Fixord for reality at the DUmp
Logged
When you are the beneficiary of someone’s kindness and generosity, it produces a sense of gratitude and community.

When you are the beneficiary of a policy that steals from someone and gives it to you in return for your vote, it produces a sense of entitlement and dependency.

Offline PatriotGame

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 4285
  • Reputation: +226/-96
  • Look at my BIG feet! Woof!
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #11 on: February 07, 2008, 12:04:15 PM »
Quote from: dutch508 on February 07, 2008, 07:45:57 AM
Crap. I hate being the people of reaon here.  :banghead:

If I fell in love with someone and later found out she had HIV, then I am not sure what I would do. If she was up front about having HIV on the first date it would be a huge red flag, however.

The question remains: What if HIV is transfered to you then the two of you break up?
How do you tell the REAL love of your life that you later meet that you are HIV positive.

I would suggest your chances of living a long live with the woman of your dreams is close to zero.

A friend of mine met a wonderful trophy woman and began dating her. Prior to having sex for the first time she told him she had genital herpes which was given to her by her previous cheating husband.
They continued on with their relationship always being careful as to when they wouhld have sex and always using protection.

After two years they broke up and soon after he was diagnosed with genital herpes.

Bacically, he was ****ed.
It has been ten years now and he is still single, still has herpes and has never had a relationship with any woman for more than about six months.
« Last Edit: February 07, 2008, 12:08:19 PM by PatriotGame »
Logged
           ►☼Liberals Are THE Root of ALL Evil!☼◄

Offline DumbAss Tanker

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 28493
  • Reputation: +1707/-151
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #12 on: February 07, 2008, 12:53:26 PM »
I'm taking this to mean "Someone you don't already have a relationship with, and who is not innocently exposed and thereby contaminated (e.g. a nurse in a lab accident) after you start one."   Therefore as a person of reason, I'm still saying OH, HELL NO.

 :tongue: 
Logged
Go and tell the Spartans, O traveler passing by
That here, obedient to their law, we lie.

Anything worth shooting once is worth shooting at least twice.

Offline Lauri

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 3636
  • Reputation: +143/-18
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #13 on: February 07, 2008, 01:00:51 PM »
Quote from: dutch508 on February 07, 2008, 07:45:57 AM
Crap. I hate being the people of reaon here.  :banghead:

If I fell in love with someone and later found out she had HIV, then I am not sure what I would do. If she was up front about having HIV on the first date it would be a huge red flag, however.

well, unless she's a drug user or sleeping with gay men, the odds of any hetero woman getting HIV is almost nil... so, yeah, i'd hope it was a HUGE red flag..

ive had this argument countless times and have been to the CDC website more times than i can count; the overwhelming statistics state that gay men ages 34-44 continue to be the fasting growing group with HIV.

not women, not kids, not heteros.

gay men.

and its preventable.
Logged

Offline jukin

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 15747
  • Reputation: +1722/-170
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #14 on: February 07, 2008, 01:21:38 PM »
Quote from: Lauri on February 07, 2008, 01:00:51 PM
Quote from: dutch508 on February 07, 2008, 07:45:57 AM
Crap. I hate being the people of reaon here.  :banghead:

If I fell in love with someone and later found out she had HIV, then I am not sure what I would do. If she was up front about having HIV on the first date it would be a huge red flag, however.

well, unless she's a drug user or sleeping with gay men, the odds of any hetero woman getting HIV is almost nil... so, yeah, i'd hope it was a HUGE red flag..

ive had this argument countless times and have been to the CDC website more times than i can count; the overwhelming statistics state that gay men ages 34-44 continue to be the fasting growing group with HIV.

not women, not kids, not heteros.

gay men.

and its preventable.

If the nanny state stops the public from smoking, eating trans fats,...etc WHY do they not stop unprotected gay sex?  Far more risky than anything they are currently puting the brakes on.  Or maybe we can do like they do in the socialized medicine countries and not reward that bad behavior by not treating it.
Logged
When you are the beneficiary of someone’s kindness and generosity, it produces a sense of gratitude and community.

When you are the beneficiary of a policy that steals from someone and gives it to you in return for your vote, it produces a sense of entitlement and dependency.

Offline DixieBelle

  • Administrator
  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 12143
  • Reputation: +512/-49
  • Still looking for my pony.....
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #15 on: February 07, 2008, 02:19:24 PM »
But, but I thought HIV/AIDS was some contrived plot to kill the gheys and liberals??? You mean they are willinginly sleeping with each other??? *eyeroll*
Logged
I can see November 2 from my house!!!

Spread my work ethic, not my wealth.

Forget change, bring back common sense.
-------------------------------------------------

No, my friends, there’s only one really progressive idea. And that is the idea of legally limiting the power of the government. That one genuinely liberal, genuinely progressive idea — the Why in 1776, the How in 1787 — is what needs to be conserved. We need to conserve that fundamentally liberal idea. That is why we are conservatives. --Bill Whittle

Offline PatriotGame

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 4285
  • Reputation: +226/-96
  • Look at my BIG feet! Woof!
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #16 on: February 07, 2008, 02:36:30 PM »
Quote from: DixieBelle on February 07, 2008, 02:19:24 PM
But, but I thought HIV/AIDS was some contrived plot to kill the gheys and liberals??? You mean they are willinginly sleeping with each other??? *eyeroll*

Shhh....chemtrails....shhh......
Logged
           ►☼Liberals Are THE Root of ALL Evil!☼◄

Offline Rebel Yell

  • Redneck with a Brain
  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 1411
  • Reputation: +111/-44
  • One more month, and I can forget about Obama.
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #17 on: February 07, 2008, 02:48:47 PM »
Call me ignorant (it wouldn't be the first time, that's what they call us who speak what we mean), but I'd rather not sit next to one in the theater.  Much less date one.  I don't run if I know of someone, but rather keep my distance.  Viruses mutate, and this one will eventually.
Logged
I feel that once a black fella has referred to white foks as "honky paleface devil white-trash cracker redneck Caspers," he's abdicated the right to get upset about the "N" word. But that's just me. -- Jim Goad

Offline Rebel

  • Stick a fork in us. We're done.
  • Administrator
  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 16767
  • Reputation: +1239/-215
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #18 on: February 07, 2008, 02:53:09 PM »
Quote from: DixieBelle on February 07, 2008, 02:19:24 PM
But, but I thought HIV/AIDS was some contrived plot to kill the gheys and liberals??? You mean they are willinginly sleeping with each other??? *eyeroll*
:owned:
Logged
NAMBLA is a left-wing organization.

Quote
There's a reason why patriotism is considered a conservative value. Watch a Tea Party rally and you'll see people proudly raising the American flag and showing pride in U.S. heroes such as Thomas Jefferson. Watch an OWS rally and you'll see people burning the American flag while showing pride in communist heroes such as Che Guevera. --Bob, from some news site

Offline PatriotGame

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 4285
  • Reputation: +226/-96
  • Look at my BIG feet! Woof!
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #19 on: February 07, 2008, 02:55:03 PM »
After careful reconsideration of this subject I have come to the following conclusion:

Would I knowingly date an HIV infected woman, a DUmmy or a green woman from another planet?
FRACK NO!
The reason for the first two is obvious but the green woman? If the skin is green there must be something wrong with the ***** ah..Bearded Ax Wound, ah...Miss Kitty!  :o

No wait! It did work for Captain Kirk so maybe....
Logged
           ►☼Liberals Are THE Root of ALL Evil!☼◄

Offline DumbAss Tanker

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 28493
  • Reputation: +1707/-151
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #20 on: February 07, 2008, 03:28:15 PM »
Quote from: PatriotGame on February 07, 2008, 02:55:03 PM
After careful reconsideration of this subject I have come to the following conclusion:

Would I knowingly date an HIV infected woman, a DUmmy or a green woman from another planet?
FRACK NO!
The reason for the first two is obvious but the green woman? If the skin is green there must be something wrong with the ***** ah..Bearded Ax Wound, ah...Miss Kitty!  :o

No wait! It did work for Captain Kirk so maybe....

"In the night all cats are black," let's not be too hasty in dismissing our friendly friends from space.

 :naughty:

Logged
Go and tell the Spartans, O traveler passing by
That here, obedient to their law, we lie.

Anything worth shooting once is worth shooting at least twice.

Offline CactusCarlos

  • Pray, eat your vitamins, and one day you too could be a
  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 4113
  • Reputation: +296/-100
  • If I agree with you, then we'll both be wrong.
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #21 on: February 07, 2008, 03:54:29 PM »
Quote from: PatriotGame on February 07, 2008, 02:55:03 PM
...there must be something wrong with the ***** ah..Bearded Ax Wound, ah...Miss Kitty!  :o

"Miss Kitty"  :rotf: :rotf: :rotf:
Logged
"The American people will never knowingly adopt socialism, but under the name of liberalism they will adopt every fragment of the socialist program until one day America will be a socialist nation without ever knowing how it happened."
  -- Norman Thomas, six-time Socialist Party presidential candidate and one of the founders of the ACLU

Offline Lauri

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 3636
  • Reputation: +143/-18
Re: Would You Date An HIV+ Person?
« Reply #22 on: February 07, 2008, 04:39:42 PM »
Quote from: jukin on February 07, 2008, 01:21:38 PM
Quote from: Lauri on February 07, 2008, 01:00:51 PM
Quote from: dutch508 on February 07, 2008, 07:45:57 AM
Crap. I hate being the people of reaon here.  :banghead:

If I fell in love with someone and later found out she had HIV, then I am not sure what I would do. If she was up front about having HIV on the first date it would be a huge red flag, however.

well, unless she's a drug user or sleeping with gay men, the odds of any hetero woman getting HIV is almost nil... so, yeah, i'd hope it was a HUGE red flag..

ive had this argument countless times and have been to the CDC website more times than i can count; the overwhelming statistics state that gay men ages 34-44 continue to be the fasting growing group with HIV.

not women, not kids, not heteros.

gay men.

and its preventable.

If the nanny state stops the public from smoking, eating trans fats,...etc WHY do they not stop unprotected gay sex?  Far more risky than anything they are currently puting the brakes on.  Or maybe we can do like they do in the socialized medicine countries and not reward that bad behavior by not treating it.

well, the govt started out that way. remember their hatred at Reagan for not stopping their own bad behavior?

now, in many gay mens circles, having HIV is a badge of honor.. its a revered disease that gives them "inner circle" status. now they have Super HIV and expect our science community to fall all over themselves to cure it.

believe me, if there were a strict hetero disease - the gay community wouldnt care less if we found a cure.
Logged
Pages: [1]   Go Up
« previous next »