Crap. I hate being the people of reaon here.
If I fell in love with someone and later found out she had HIV, then I am not sure what I would do. If she was up front about having HIV on the first date it would be a huge red flag, however.
The question remains: What if HIV is transfered to you then the two of you break up?
How do you tell the REAL love of your life that you later meet that you are HIV positive.
I would suggest your chances of living a long live with the woman of your dreams is close to zero.
A friend of mine met a wonderful trophy woman and began dating her. Prior to having sex for the first time she told him she had genital herpes which was given to her by her previous cheating husband.
They continued on with their relationship always being careful as to when they wouhld have sex and always using protection.
After two years they broke up and soon after he was diagnosed with genital herpes.
Bacically, he was ****ed.
It has been ten years now and he is still single, still has herpes and has never had a relationship with any woman for more than about six months.