Well, of course the sparkling old dude would prefer Nan.
Even though the sparkling old dude, now in his seventies, was raised on the mafia-dominated mean streets and alleys of Bridgeport, Connecticut, for some decades now he's been associated with the former d'Alesandro organized crime cabal in Baltimore, Maryland.
Nan of course is the daughter of the founder of that crime cabal, Thomas d'Alesandro, who was later mayor of Baltimore and a congressman from Baltimore. This was during the 1950s, 1960s. And then his son Thomas Jr. followed in his footsteps.
Nan and her husband were sent out to California during the 1960s to open up a branch there.
The sparkling old dude may look like a balding nondescript wimp nagged by his much-younger trophy wife, but actually he's lived quite an interesting life.