Here's a link to the transcript of that 2005 tape that apparently was recorded during a ride to a sound stage or something and the comment about which Pam Pooped her Pile:
Transcripts: What the mics caught Donald Trump saying in 2005 and what he said in his taped apologyTrump: Yeah, that’s her, with the gold. I’ve got to use some Tic Tacs, just in case I start kissing her. You know I’m automatically attracted to beautiful — I just start kissing them. It’s like a magnet. I just kiss. I don’t even wait. And when you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything.
Unidentified voice: Whatever you want.
Trump: Grab them by the *****. You can do anything.
As I said above, one can interpret his comment as Pam does. One can interpret it as boasting that went beyond reality. One can interpret it as hypothetical hyperbole. Or one can interpret it as referring to what other stars have done but Trump had not.
IMO, two things argue against a literal, "I have done this," interpretation:
* Trump switched from first person, "I", to third person, "You";
* The physiology and mechanics (for lack of a better word) of doing this to a fully clothed woman; if she went into a situation not fully clothed, that would be other than a sexual assault.
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ETA: Trump switched from past indicative to subjunctive mood;
IOW, I think there's plenty of ugly in that conversation. But claiming Trump said that he used his celebrity to sexually assault women is, I think, not true.