She said Barack Obama was behind the white supremacist marches in Charlottesville. ... It was an Obama fan who organized it ...
This is at least partly true. The guy who did the organizing did work to reelect Obama in 2012. That said, I don't think it's known yet whether he was a mole while working for Obama, a Prog agent-provocateur in organizing this event, or did a political U-turn somewhere between.
... and Donald Trump had condemned the bigots. ...
This is entirely true, and has been since the day of the riot.
Basically anyone who was criticizing him was already against him.
Well, if you have a better explanation for ignoring what Trump has said ...
She said she's not a Trump fan, and I needed to see both sides.
Yeppers, wifey has been drinking that Honesty koolaid,
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I yelled at her and said there aren't two sides when we are talking about Nazis and my grandfather died fighting Nazis, and then I stormed off. ...
Your slandering Trump as a Nazi doesn't make it so. BTW, I'd advise avoiding looking at pictures of Trump's cabinet. It would be hazardous to your political world view.
I am so upset.
You should be, but not for the reason you are. You treated your wife like crap over a comparatively unimportant matter. You should be crawling up to her imploring her forgiveness!